Porn and Sex Education: What Teenager Are Learning from it?

There was a time when we were in our teenage time. A boy who is in middle of being a kid and a man or a girl in middle of being kid and woman. He/ She sometime acts childish and sometime mature. This is the stage where a right guidance can turn this wet and soft sand into a masterpiece or wrong one into just a pile of mud. Sex or Porn plays a major role in this journey. These change a lot in them, physically or mentally. It changes their liking, disliking their view towards the opposite gender.

What they see in the porn is not only thing that bring changes in them. What they learn through the social media like snapchat, Facebook and Instagram also changes their view. And to be precise it do not changes their view, it makes them confused. In a talk with teenagers one expressed his view that he saw a animation GIF of a man slamming girl against the wall with a girls comment on post “I want a boyfriend like this.” And the one Drew mentioned of the “pain room” in “Fifty Shades of Grey” with a caption by a girl: “This is awesome!”

Porn and Sex Education: What Teenager Are Learning from it?

Watching these porn videos also make them think that a woman moans for everything that a man do to them. Man need to perform for long and they need to show a little aggression. He’d heard about the importance of consent in sex, but it felt pretty abstract, and it didn’t seem as if it would always be realistic in the heat of the moment.

There are many thing that they see in those videos but they can’t do this to a girl without their permission. Some things are soft some are like hard. Boy see blowjob in a video and have dream of it while having sex but on other hand girl may think it disgusting. Same goes for a girl who want to be get licked but boy thing this is out of his sex list.

“I would never do something that looked uncomfortable,” Kid said, jumping back into the conversation. “I might say, ‘I’ve seen this in porn — do you want to try it?’ ” This was his response to the thing like anal, pulling hair, licking, using toys like in ‘Fifty Shades of Grey”.

If we look to the facts, age of first time watching port of a boy is 13 and 14 for a girl. According to a fact published on NewYorksTimes In a 2008 University of New Hampshire survey, 93 percent of male college students and 62 percent of female students said they saw online porn before they were 18. Many females, in particular, weren’t seeking it out. Thirty-five percent of males said they had watched it 10 or more times during adolescence.

On porn sites like PornHub kid only watch what PornHub algo show them. Instead site like xvideos and xnxx show what is popular in your region or what is recently uploaded on them in your region. Teen, Anal, Lesbian, Milf are mostly and widely watched categories. So many porn are made with males perspective where it seems like he is holding the camera to give better orgasm to man. But with tech it is now upgraded with VR.

It’s hard to know if, and how, this translates into behavior. While some studies show a small number of teens who watch higher rates of porn engage in earlier sex as well as gender stereotyping and sexual relationships that are less affectionate than their peers, these only indicate correlations, not cause and effect. But surveys do suggest that the kinds of sex some teenagers have may be shifting. The percentage of 18-to-24-year-old women who reported trying anal sex rose to 40 percent in 2009 from 16 percent in 1992, according to the largest survey on American sexual behavior in decades, co-authored by Herbenick and published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine.

In data from that same survey, 20 percent of 18-to-19 year old females had tried anal sex; about 6 percent of 14-to-17-year-old females had. And in a 2016 Swedish study of nearly 400 16-year-old girls, the percentage of girls who had tried anal sex doubled if they watched pornography. Like other studies about sex and porn, it only showed a correlation, and girls who are more sexually curious may also be drawn to porn. In addition, some girls may view anal sex as a “safer” alternative to vaginal sex, as there’s little risk of pregnancy.