“She Is Not Virgin”l

A big outcry goes in her mind “Will this society accept me? Who will marry me? Will  anyone trust me that was not my fault?” Her dialogue ends with herself with “Should I finish myself.” And the shameless thing is many times she finishes herself due to someone else…

She shouts, She screams within herself. Sometimes she fills with a lot of anger and says “I will kill him, who made me non –virgin.”

Daily she is being raped by hundreds of eyes surrounding her. These dreadless eyes always look for a girl, a woman, in short, a female body. The question arises, “Why only she?”After her harassment, many lips wait to say that It was her fault only. ” Why she was wearing short dresses? Why she was out of the home at night? Why she was not running from there?” Maybe there were more than 1 men or maybe she was injured by them. These groups don’t think of her liberty. Doesn’t she have a right to do whatever she wants? Those who think that being raped is always her fault, they should remove this from the mind and should stop blaming her. Always talking about such things fertilizes the false behavior of those shameless minds who hurts her.

“A Five-Year-Old Girl Found Raped And Murdered In A Farm”  “A Woman was Suffering Harassment from last 9 Months” reading such news grieved by the heart. In this just a physical attraction or hate that leads to her violence? Why these nonsense people behave like a ferocious animal? Why they don’t think of Being A Human more than a man.

After her rape also people see her with a wrong look. In their consolations, she finds blaming to her only. She cries in herself. Her mind gets more wounds than her body after that rape.

When she files a report in court she has been asked many abusive questions. The language used there and accuses made on her makes her panic. India a country where a woman is adored as a ‘Devi’ there only In the year 2017,32500 case means almost 90 rape cases daily were registered with the police. The National Crime reports Bureau on October 21,  2019, released its report for the year 2017, which stated that 359849 cases of crime against women were reported in the country. How worst it is!

In many cases, boys or men do the rapes due to patriarchy as they assume themselves as a superpower. These people should get proper sexual knowledge, parents should not hesitate to talk with children on sex-related topics. They should be creating respect for girls, not attraction. Many times men don’t like the progress of a woman so that they do wrongs with her. Such thinking should be changed and they should appreciate those women . Law should not delay justice to a victim of rapes or harassment. Delaying it may increase this crime. Every family should treat both girls and boys equally. Should avoid their children from being a ferocious man. Everyone should try to fill the gaps in protecting women and girls from sexual harassment, which may be personal or national. And you should stop blaming the raped woman at least to comfort her.